Ease your mind before (or even after) a date with these questions, answers, and suggestions from others who have been in your shoes.

Let’s face it, dating in the 21st century is a tricky business. How soon should you add labels to your relationship? When is the right time to say the three magic words? Should you call or should you text? What does it mean when you’re not on your partner’s social media? Oh, and how do you stay safe on a blind date?

We know dating can be very daunting, and sometimes the only thing that will ease your mind is getting pointers and answers from someone who’s been where you are now. Browse through these dating diaries and see how others are dealing with situations such as yours. You might find some gems to use for your own situation.